Hear It on Sunday, Use It on Monday: For the Times You Think You are in Control

“Hey Brad, hand me a pencil please, will you?” I asked, interrupting the quiet. “I need to stab my eye out.”
 
I’d just read online that yet another fellow writer had landed a book deal – a two-book deal, no less, with a major, New York City-based publisher. And I’d had it. Frustrated and bitter with my lack of progress in the publishing field, I was ready to quit. Or at the very least stab my eye out with a sharp pencil.

Then, just two days later, my agent called with good news. She had a project for me – not the book deal I'd dreamed of, but a fabulous writing project nonetheless. I hung up the phone and twirled into the kitchen, but even before I could announce my big news, Brad said this: “The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away.”
I give the man credit – Brad didn’t dare quote this verse from Job when I was in the throes of the Lord taketh away. He only mentioned it at the announcement of good news, and not to throw a wet blanket on my party, but to remind me that God, and God alone, is in control.

I forget that sometimes. Or I try to forget it, at least. Frankly, I like to be in control. I like to think I’m managing this tenuous writing career; I like to pretend that I’m making this all happen on my own. I like to imagine that if I work hard enough and push long enough, I can make a book deal happen.

Deep down, though, I know that’s simply not true. Deep down I know that real faith requires obedience and surrender, that God is the master planner, not me.

And I think that’s exactly what Hannah realizes in the verses we read from 1 Samuel this week.

Her prayer begins as thanksgiving for the fact that God has accomplished the impossible in blessing her with a child after years of infertility.

But then Hannah’s prayer shifts into an entirely different tone, as she says this:

The Lord gives both death and life;
he brings some people down to the grave but
raises others up.
The Lord makes some poor and others rich;
he brings some down and lifts others up…
For all the earth is the Lord’s,
and he has set the world in order
( 1 Samuel 2:6-8, NLT)

For me, the last two lines are key: For all the earth is the Lord’s, and he has set the world in order.


Hannah bargained with God in order to be able to bear a child – she took the matter into her own hands, her own control, and made a deal with God. In the end, though, her prayer illustrates that she has come to a deeper understanding of her relationship with God. Hannah understands that Samuel was offered to her as an undeserved gift, rather than a reward for her tenacious prayers.

With this prayer, Hannah reminds me that the Earth, along with everything and everyone on it, was created by God. He rules over it…and us. And he (not I) sets the world in order.

What about you? Are you struggling to control something that should be left in God's hands?

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Hazel Moon –   – (October 15, 2012 at 12:36 AM)  

Congratulations Michelle, I am happy for YOU and for all who are getting published or are on their way there!!

kendal –   – (October 15, 2012 at 5:02 AM)  

again. again i see how much alike we are. my struggle with envy might be worse, i just spent 5 minutes scrolling through face book and determined that my life is pathetic. which is pathetic.

patsy –   – (October 15, 2012 at 5:10 AM)  

Hi Michelle! I am sure one day you will get that book deal. For now God is strengthening and spreading your roots, and then wham, your growth will surprise you! Please never say you want to stab your eye out! Our words have power! Patsy
from
HeARTworks

Jean Wise  – (October 15, 2012 at 5:19 AM)  

Ouch - please don't stab your eyes out. I just love your honest writing and congrats on the writing project. Good reminders this morning. Just shows another advantage of having an agent - something I don't have and am jealous you do so hand me a pencil please.....

Courtney Buxton  – (October 15, 2012 at 5:23 AM)  

There is such peace in releasing my controlling grip, but it is hard! I hadn't thought of Hannah's prayer that way before. So glad you highlighted those last two lines. They are wonderful. As for you, I see God using you here and I am grateful for that.

Lisa notes...  – (October 15, 2012 at 7:23 AM)  

Yes, I too sometimes fool myself into thinking I am in control. Silly girl. And I really don't even want to be; I just want the goods that come with being in control.

And God provides that. Great story, Michelle. I always appreciate your honesty and always relate to it...

Sharita Knobloch  – (October 15, 2012 at 7:31 AM)  

Ahhh, control... Something that feels great to have, but even better when we let it go to God. It's a work in progress for my sweet husband and I. My "Word" for 2012 is "Dependence" as in, depend on God, not on myself. He continues to give us circumstances and situations to RELEASE our desire/want/habit of control and let Him do His thing. It's hard, but when we do, the rewards are so-much-sweeter. (Not to mention less stressful and more peaceful!) Thanks for this great post today!

Nancy Franson  – (October 15, 2012 at 8:02 AM)  

I'm pretty sure that the last two years of my life have been remedial instruction in the reality that God is in control and I am not. One of my favorite quotes from my pastor is this, "God loves you too much to allow you to be in control of your own life." Sometimes that's only comforting in retrospect, when I realize how gracious God has been in redirecting me from something that seemed to make sense in my own wisdom.

And congrats on that writing project--I know you are rocking it!

ro elliott –   – (October 15, 2012 at 8:07 AM)  

great post...control...ugh...I wrote of this today too. Living a surrendered life and trusting in His love for us...oh how the enemy comes to try to steal, kill and destroy this abiding place. thanks for this...blessings and congrats on your assignment~

Joan Davis  – (October 15, 2012 at 8:38 AM)  

Yep...God has a time and place for everything! It is sometimes difficult to give up control to Him, but when we do, we are always blessed! Congratulations on your new writing venture! I'm sure God will use it for just the right purpose!!


In Him, Joan

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:50 AM)  

I'll be stopping by to read your piece, Ro - I'm always in need of a new perspective on my age-old battle with control.

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:51 AM)  

Yup, a lot of my understanding and comfort comes in retrospect. Good point, Nancy.

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:52 AM)  

My 2012 word is Surrender, so we are on the same page, Sharita!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:52 AM)  

Good point, Lisa -- we want the good that come with being in control...not actually the control itself.
xxoo - love you, girl!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:53 AM)  

I hadn't seen those particular lines in her prayer before either -- clearly God was using them to speak to me this week!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:54 AM)  

Oh i know, Jean, I know. Envy has been my biggest threat in this journey so far...the result of idolatry, I know now. I'll be writing more about this topic this week (Wednesday) -- and probably in the coming weeks and months as well!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:55 AM)  

Thanks for your lovely encouragement, Patsy. Blessings and love...

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:57 AM)  

There is no way your struggle with envy is worse, my friend. Facebook is my nemesis (yet I always go back). If there's one thing this rocky writing road has demonstrated to me it's how very weak I am and how very much I need God to forgive and forgive and forgive.
BTW, your life is NOT pathetic. The hope you convey about Ed is HUGE. And your work with your mentor girl? Need I say more???????!!!!!! You are God's gift to that girl and to SO many of us, including me, my friend.

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 15, 2012 at 9:57 AM)  

Thanks, Hazel - you are always such an encouragement!

Connie@raise your eyes  – (October 15, 2012 at 10:23 AM)  

Often, I'm waiting on GOD, but then launch out into what I think would bring GOD's plan about...and then am reminded by GOD how that kind of problem solving turned out for Abraham/Sarah/Hagar.

Richfaith  – (October 15, 2012 at 10:28 AM)  

As a women...the better question might be...when am I NOT trying to control something. Lol Oh that open handed life. Surrendered. Humbled. Dependent on God alone.

saleecash –   – (October 15, 2012 at 10:53 AM)  

Wow, "an undeserved gift, rather than a reward for her tenacious prayers", that we all would realize such . . . would truly be a blessing and free us from ourselves.

Sandra Heska King  – (October 15, 2012 at 11:03 AM)  

"For all the earth is the Lord’s,
and he has set the world in order"


Guess what? My 2012 word is "order." Ouch. Pass the pencil.

Donna Attaway –   – (October 15, 2012 at 11:41 AM)  

Congrats on your new writing adventure! So enjoy your posts and look forward to reading them. Your honesty and transparency are so appreciated. God bless you in your work and home!!

Laurie Collett –   – (October 15, 2012 at 11:45 AM)  

Praise God that He alone is in control; that He is infinitely good and infinitely powerful, and that He works all things for the good of His children. Congrats on your new project! Thanks for the great post & for hosting, & God bless!
Laurie



http://savedbygracebiblestudy.blogspot.com/

Vicky –   – (October 15, 2012 at 12:41 PM)  

I was reading in 1 Samuel yesterday and I have decided that Hannah is my hero. She was smart in that she knew God was always in control so giving Samuel back to God was like returning something she had the privilege of borrowing for a time.

Elizabeth –   – (October 15, 2012 at 2:17 PM)  

Yes, Michelle,you speak my heart...so often grabbing the reins, naming the timelines, deciding whats best, making a plan, executing a plan. There is peace in the release...all back to Him. But at 53 I have done it so often, will continue to do it, but long to release it back to HIm for once and for all. Congrats on your good news. Celebrate it. I share your joy, Elizabeth

sgilberttweets –   – (October 15, 2012 at 3:15 PM)  

Ah, this is me. I'm very detailed oriented, so I tend to grab the reins and take charge, making sure everything is just as it should be. It's so frustrating when I can't do that! And it is just like God to take a person like that and teach them flexibility. :) God bless you as you continue your journey! Your writing is beautiful.

pastordt –   – (October 16, 2012 at 6:52 PM)  

Got an extra pencil? I seem to need one with some frighteningly regularity some days. And Brad was wise not to hit you with that verse when things were on the downswing! Love your reflections here - and appreciate these good biblical reminders from one of my favorite stories.

Robert Moon –   – (October 16, 2012 at 6:52 PM)  

Oh no, don't poke out your eye, just be happy for them, and after all you are next!

Megan Willome  – (October 16, 2012 at 6:52 PM)  

I count 56 linkups. You must be doing something right.

Mary Bonner  – (October 16, 2012 at 6:54 PM)  

Sounds like Brad is one smart guy!


As for this post...you went straight to my heart, friend. Thought-provoking and convicting.

Thank you.

dukeslee  – (October 16, 2012 at 6:59 PM)  

You have such pretty eyes. I'm so glad you didn't stab them out. :)

judith –   – (October 16, 2012 at 7:00 PM)  

Thanks for the thoughtful post getting published in writing and letting God control our desires in life.


Thanks too for the linkup this week.

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 16, 2012 at 7:53 PM)  

And thank you, for coming by today, Judith!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 16, 2012 at 7:54 PM)  

Thanks, Mary - for being here and for being such a wonderfully encouraging friend. I am so grateful we met -- online AND in person!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 16, 2012 at 7:55 PM)  

You know, you are absolutely right, Robert. I've been reading Romans these days, and there is a lot in there about delighting in others and liting each other up. It's definitely a message I need to hear often. Thank you for your timely reminder!

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 16, 2012 at 7:57 PM)  

Oh yeah, he's one smart man! Of course, he said to me today after he read this post, "I was kind of joking when I said that!" Oh well...it made me think and it generated a blog post, so joke or not, the words sunk deep (sometimes God works that way, too, doesn't He?).

Michelle DeRusha  – (October 16, 2012 at 7:58 PM)  

Oh me, too, me too - very detail-oriented. It's a gift...but it can be a curse if I let myself get too controlling. Thank you for coming by...I appreciate your encouragement!

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