Hear It on Sunday, Use It on Monday: Small Temptations, Big Consequences



Last September I completed the Shop-Not Project: 365 days without shopping for clothes, shoes or accessories – a major challenge for this Paris Hilton protégé.

Throughout that long year I was tempted to cheat, but surprisingly, it wasn’t the big-ticket items that nearly undid me. I didn’t pine (much) after the Coach purses or the Vera Wang wedges. Instead, it was the small, seemingly innocuous temptations that threated to derail the project. In fact, I nearly destroyed nine months of not shopping with a single pair of $9.99 Target flip-flops. I shuffled around the store with those tag-bound flip-flops on my feet for a full 20 minutes before I reluctantly returned them to the rack.
The truth is, falling prey to small temptations can have big, long-lasting consequences.

Take Eve, for example. After listening to the serpent’s rationalization for eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, the Bible simply reports that she “was convinced.” Genesis 3:6 goes on to say this:

“She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too.” (NLT)

Can’t you hear Eve’s justification, her rationale for eating the fruit? “It’s just a piece of fruit; what’s the big deal? I’m only going to eat one…what could possibly happen from one piece of fruit?”

On the surface, it’s a small temptation, a small sin: simple act of disobedience. But as we well know, it was a small temptation with tremendous, eternal consequences.

Think about the minor sins we’re tempted to commit every day. Maybe it’s office gossip. Or an email flirtation. Maybe it’s fudging the numbers a tiny bit on your expense report. Or yelling at your kids. Just like Eve’s fruit, these temptations, these sins, don’t seem so dire on the surface. Yet each has the potential to lead to even greater sin and grave repercussions.

As I stood in the shoe aisle of Target with those $9.99 flip flops on my feet, I didn’t consider the potential fall-out that might result from the purchase. I wanted them, and they were easy to justify. Now, though, I can see how those plastic flip-flops may not have been such a small, silly temptation after all.  I suspect if I’d walked out of Target with those flip flops in hand, they would have made the next tempting purchase easier to justify, too.

Can you think of a small temptation you’re wrestling with right now that might lead to bigger consequences down the line?  What’s one thing you might do to resist such temptations in the future?


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Hazel Moon –   – (September 10, 2012 at 1:34 AM)  

Not to shop is a unique way to fast. I am glad you did not yield to the temptation and purchase those cute flip flops. Most of us would benefit from such a 365 day not to shop. Blessings on you for hosting this site and for your heart that thirsts after God.

Wendy @ E1A –   – (September 10, 2012 at 2:01 AM)  

Wow! No clothes shopping for a year!


I never buy expensive clothes (out of my budget or I no doubt would) but I do like to be able to purchase a nice top, etc from time to time. This would be an "Ouch!" for many women.


With regards to the purpose of your post however, "yes" there are small temptations which I experience which could lead to larger consequences. They are also opportunities to grow my faith when I don't entertain them. Sometimes it's a real struggle with the flesh!

kendal –   – (September 10, 2012 at 4:55 AM)  

i will forever remember your shop not year....and i am a slippery slope veteran. takes so much prayer and self-talk to say no to the small....

Christina@toshowthemjesus.com –   – (September 10, 2012 at 5:34 AM)  

365 days is beyond impressive. I think I would have given in at day 10. I imagine it was a good lesson in self-control and battling temptation. Great post!

OutnumberedMom –   – (September 10, 2012 at 5:57 AM)  

It is the little things, isn't it? And it's so easy to see them in our children and overlook them in ourselves...
Thanks for the call to self-examination today, Michelle.

Gaby  – (September 10, 2012 at 6:09 AM)  

Ha! That is the problem: that we think something is "little" vs. "big." There is no such thing as a "little" sin. Sin may have different earthly consequences but disobedience is to God simply and plain disobedience. Maybe if I stop measuring disobedience I will take temptation more seriously. Good post, Michelle!

David Rupert  – (September 10, 2012 at 7:09 AM)  

If we want to be solid in the great things, we must first be solid in the little things. Your dedication, committment and discipline have been inspiring. And knowing now that you actually had temptation -- deep temptation -- makes me even more happy to know you.

Sheila Seiler Lagrand  – (September 10, 2012 at 7:30 AM)  

Great truth in this post. Thank you, Michelle.

thank you.

Oh--and those swimming-pool colored flip-flops? Amazing!

Michael Moore  – (September 10, 2012 at 8:47 AM)  

I have, sadly, lived the small temptation turning into a HUGE mess... thank God for grace and new beginnings... thanks for the post, Michelle!

Danise Jurado  – (September 10, 2012 at 9:07 AM)  

So TRUE... Little things matter! Lovely post and wonderful reminder to stay watchful for all the little temptations and distractions in life! Thank you for hosting - Blessings

JosephPote –   – (September 10, 2012 at 9:18 AM)  

It is truly the little temptations that are most likely to lead us astray.
Thank you, Michelle, for another great thought-provoking post!

Tonya  – (September 10, 2012 at 10:22 AM)  

Michelle, I identify with this post SO MUCH! While I can't say that I could survive no clothing purchases for a full 365 days, I can say that I have fallen victim to the small temptations that likely lead to big temptations as a compulsive overeater. It truly can start with just one bite.


Thank you for sharing this! The next time I reach for that tempted bite, I will definitely remember the story of Eve and the fruit.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 10, 2012 at 11:39 AM)  

I have too, Michael (much worse than the flipflps temptation, believe me). His mercies are new every morning...Amen, Amen.

Shelly Miller  – (September 10, 2012 at 12:04 PM)  

Congratulations on doing that for a whole year. And I think Lent is a struggle! I think my temptation lately is reading one more blog post that hooks me wide eyed surfing for another hour while I ignore my family. It's yucky. I'm trying to get some order and self-control.

Laurie Collett –   – (September 10, 2012 at 12:09 PM)  

Excellent reminder, Michelle! There are no small sins in God's eyes, so we would do best to flee all temptations. Thanks for the great post & for hosting the linkup, & God bless!
Laurie



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Leigh Calfee  – (September 10, 2012 at 12:17 PM)  

Eyerolls are big for me. It's interesting that the Lord keeps expecting more as we grow in faith. So I have learned how to keep my mouth shut (most of the time), and now He's working with me on rolling my eyes. Eyerolls are silent, but they can convey as much as me shouting or gossipping. Yet I still find myself almost automatically rolling my eyes at certain situations, and I have to remind myself slience does not necessarily = obedience on my part. I have to avoid the temptation to convey not-nice stuff with my eyes.
Michelle, I'm thinking to the pics I saw of you this summer sitting on your patio with a group of ladies. You looked *totally* put together & not at all like you hadn't shopped for a year:)

Theresa @ Heavenly Glimpses –   – (September 10, 2012 at 12:22 PM)  

I can relate to this - little temptations having greater repercussions, Michelle. Thank you for these great thoughts!
http://www.heavenlyglimpses.blogspot.com/2012/09/10-lessons-ive-learned-from-10-years-of.html

Connie@raise your eyes  – (September 10, 2012 at 12:31 PM)  

So true and I find as I get older that the lines which once glared bold, now thin like a spider's web between the choices and I must focus better to see them.

donnapyle –   – (September 10, 2012 at 1:17 PM)  

WOW! I'm so impressed by your 365 Shop-Not Project! You've inspired me, my friend. And CONGRATS to Amanda for winning the goody basket for my new book release!

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 10, 2012 at 3:09 PM)  

The 365 Shop Not actually changed my whole "relationship" with clothes and shows (and purses and jewelry). I am not nearly as much of a shopper anymore because of it. It was a pretty transformative experience.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 10, 2012 at 3:11 PM)  

Oh my gosh I totally do that, too, Shelly. And too much time scrolling blog posts makes me feel all headachy and gross (and sometimes inadequate) in addition to the guilt. I'm with you on the need for some self-control in this area.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 10, 2012 at 3:13 PM)  

Yup, I'm an eye-roller, too. And even when I'm not rolling my eyes, I'm eye-rolling in my head (i.e. judging), which, of course, is just as bad!
{of course, the Shop Not Projected ended LAST August 2011...so what you saw me wearing in those pictures this summer was probably new! ;) }

soulstops –   – (September 10, 2012 at 4:24 PM)  

Love how you are continuing with your trust and obey theme ...I don't think I can narrow it down to one small temptation, but I think whenever I am tempted to compare, it always leads to a worse place versus if I practice gratitude, and counting my blessings :) Thanks, Michelle :)

Megan Willome  – (September 10, 2012 at 6:14 PM)  

Your tags read "Temptation--Use it on Monday." Cracks me up. Yessirree, that's when I use my temptations: Monday morning!

Sheila Seiler Lagrand  – (September 10, 2012 at 6:18 PM)  

Megan, thank you for a laugh on a Monday afternoon!

Susan DiMickele  – (September 10, 2012 at 9:11 PM)  

Oh boy. It's those little temptations that get us every time. Is there such thing as a "little" temptation?

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 8:00 AM)  

Thanks, Dolly...and for tweeting, too!

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:48 PM)  

True, true...I think before I wrote this I thought there were "little" temptations...but I can see now, how they can lead to much bigger issues!

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:49 PM)  

Wish I could I've resisted temptation every time in my life...but alas...no.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:50 PM)  

Yup, I did that, too, Gaby - measure disobedience. That's a good way to look at it.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:50 PM)  

Yeah, the whole log vs. speck thing. Been there!

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:51 PM)  

The early weeks were hard, I admit. But surprisingly I did get (sort of) used to it.

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 12:52 PM)  

Really good point, Wendy, about these also being opportunities to grow our faith - I like that positive take on this. Thank you!

Michelle DeRusha  – (September 11, 2012 at 6:50 PM)  

I definitely have the oversnacking tendency, especially in the evening. Once I get started, it's hard not to move onto 2 or 3 different snacks before the night is done.

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