Hear It on Sunday, Use It on Monday: In the Waiting
>> Monday, July 30, 2012 –
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| Christina and me at She Speaks. |
So...in light of that, I am honored to welcome my friend Christina Fox here to guest post for the Hear It on Sunday, Use It on Monday Community. I had the absolute delight of meeting Christina in person at She Speaks recently, and she is just wonderful: sweet, honest and true.
Be sure to check out Christina's blog, To Show Them Jesus, and give her a little "Like" on her Facebook page!
And thanks, Christina, for hosting the community here today.
I do not like to wait for anything. Patience is not one of my virtues. Having children has only exacerbated this lack in me. Yet, life requires waiting--waiting for the kids to get ready, for the computer to wake up, for a return text, for my turn in line, etc.
I know that waiting is good for me and that I can learn much while in the valley. Too often though, when I wait for God to move or answer a question, I attempt to push things along. Do you ever do that? I try to help Him make a decision or ensure His will comes to fruition (as though I could). I go on ahead without an answer or direction. When I face a junction in my life, I turn down a road without knowing if it's even the path He wants me to take.
Recently, I spent time with the Israelites in Exodus chapter thirty-two. They were about as impatient as I and this passage reminded me of my problem with waiting on the Lord. Moses was on the mountain with God, receiving the Law, inscribed by God's own hand.The people waited at the bottom of the mountain, restless and agitated. With Aaron's help, they made a golden calf and began to worship it.
"When the people saw that Moses was so long in coming down from the mountain, they gathered around Aaron and said, “Come, make us gods who will go before us. As for this fellow Moses who brought us up out of Egypt, we don’t know what has happened to him.” Exodus 32:1
Whenever I read this passage, I always think, "Didn't they know better?" Yes. They did know better. But perhaps what they knew to be true hadn't made its way to their heart. They knew the power of God. They knew that His timing is perfect. They knew He would lead them where they needed to go. After all, they had seen Him open the sea and turned it into a road, allowing them to walk to the other side. They had seen Him rescue and save them from slavery. Yet, they could not wait for Him and His word.
This story reflects my own heart. I know I need to trust God for my future. I know He has a good plan for me. I know I need to wait for His answer before I move forward.
The knowing has to sink into the heart before faith can be lived out in the waiting.
When Moses returned to the Israelites and found them worshiping an idol of their own making, he was so angry he broke the Law in pieces. God was angry and wanted to wipe them out from existance. I don't want to be found making idols because I'm too impatient to wait for God's perfect timing in my life. I don't want to be so impatient with God that I move on and follow my own plans. And I don't want to just know that God is faithful, I want to also live like He is faithful.
I want what my mind knows to be true to be what my heart lives out as the truth.
After all, haven't I seen Him part the waters in my own life? Hasn't He rescued me from slavery to sin? Haven't I witnessed His grace in each and every breath I take?
Even now, as I wait for answers in my life, I ask for grace to live faithfully in this valley. I pray that I will live in today, not pushing the present into the future. And instead of filling my heart with idols of my making, I will wait for His word to return from the mountain to this valley below. Remembering His past faithfulness, I await HIs perfect timing.
What about you? What are you waiting for?

Christina Fox is a writer, blogger, and coffee drinker--not necessarily in that order. She is a licensed mental health counselor with an M.S. in Counseling Psychology. A mom to two active boys, she spends her days answering all their questions while asking God plenty of her own. You can find her blogging at To Show Them Jesus and on Facebook.
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Yes the Scriptures tell us to "Wait" on the Lord, but other than that, I am one of those people who hate to wait - - but I am getting better at it!
Nice to meet you Christina! Great post! I am a very impatient person, a multi tasker who has so many things going on at the same time. I know there are diamonds to be found if I am patient. The only time I do not have several things on my plate is during my early morning prayer time! Patsy
Wow, two of my favies in one bite today! lol. Well, I sure hope I get to go to She Speaks next year! Breaks are so good. I took one when I went to Maine this month...it was wonderful!
You write: "The knowing has to sink into the heart before faith can be lived out
in the waiting." This is so true.
Glad I'm not alone in hating to wait:) May He help us all to wait for His perfect timing. Blessings!
Thanks, Patsy! Yes, prayer often slows me down too. Thanks for your comment:)
I'll bet Maine was beautiful! You should go to SheSpeaks! You'll meet so many amazing people, like Michelle:) Blessings!
Oh thank you! I'm praying that it sinks in my heart:) Have a great day!
I read this, "
The knowing has to sink into the heart before faith can be lived out in the waiting." and I was done. Did you slip inside my head for this one, or is this simply another occasion where God had a message for me and sent me here to retrieve it. Thank you. Bless you.
Peace and good.
Do I ever attempt to push things along? Ummm....only all the time! And control really is the big old golden idol I bow down to when I think God is keeping me waiting too long.
And the things that need to sink into my heart are the convictions that God is good--always and all the time--and he is being good to me and my loved ones in the waiting. And, I need to remember that the things that grieve me as I wait grieve the heart of God as well.
So happy to see the two of you together. Thanks, Christina, for giving Miss Michelle some respite from computer world.
And--I didn't know you were a mental health counselor. How did I not know this?
What a joy to see you here, Christina! And yes ... grace in every breath. It's all a gift -- and ((you)) are a gift.
(Hi, Michelle!)
Thanks, Jennifer! All is grace.
I know just what you mean. I try to control my future by anticipating God's next move in my life.
And yes, He is good all the time. This truth keeps us focused on Him rather than our circumstances.
I guess I only add the license info. to my bio. and don't mention it that often otherwise. Because I am more than my title:)
Blessings!
I wish I could slip into people's heads, it would help me understand my husband:) I am glad God used me to encourage you, it's all Him. Blessings to you!
waiting does test us...I wrote of this too...for me...it is really trusting His love...no matter what my eyes see...and those ebenezers are sooo important...because He is always faithful.
Unfortunately, waiting well isn't one of my strengths. Just another area where I need His power to be perfected in my weakness.
Thanks for sharing with us today, Christina.
Great post. Valley dwelling is a tough place to be. Thanks for reminding us how to do it gracefully as we wait on Him. This was timely for me right now.
Ditto to Debbie. The same sentence struck at my heart as well.
While we know, we aren't experiencing it at a heart deep level. Nicely put. I will have to keep Exodus in mind when I find myself feeling impatient!
So true... may he penetrate this impatient idol factory heart of mine. Great truths to meditate on this day. Thank you!
I agree with Nancy, I too, like to "push things along" and that's what really grabbed my attention in your words, Christina. Why do we think we can speed up God's purposes? I think we may actually slow them down instead! Yikes! Yes, I am waiting in a certain area of my life. But I keep hearing God say, learn in the waiting--but that's so hard to do! Your post encouraged me, Christina! And thanks goes out to Michelle for hosting as well!
I so needed to hear this today! Just this morning, my husband was bemoaning my lack of patience! Remembering and thanking Him for His faithfulness, perfect timing, and grace seem to be the best solution.
Thanks for the great post & for hosting the link up, & God bless,
Laurie
http://savedbygracebiblestudy.blogspot.com/
Sounds like my husband:) And thanks for your sweet words! Blessings!
I know better, but I do it anyway:( I am often "stiff-necked" as God described the Israelites. So glad I'm not alone in this struggle. May we spur one another on to love Him more in the waiting. Blessings!
Thank you, sweet Lisa for following me here today:) I think my factory may be next door to yours:)
Thanks Kim! I have found myself in Exodus many times, the story of the Israelites is also my story. So thankful for Jesus, my Deliverer! Blessings to you!
The valley is often where we learn and grow the most. May we all use those times to draw near to Him.
Yes, only through His strength can we do all things. Thanks, Lisa!
Yes, always faithful! Trusting in His love is what brings us from impatience to trust. Blessings!
Again and again, I need this reminder. To live out what I believe, to wait on GOD to act...not to just push His obvious will along in my timing!
What's funny re: that scriptural piece: the Israelites are making less-than-bright decisions, but Aaron is caving in to them and lies to Moses when he is asked about it. He told the I.s to give him gold and he says he cast it into the fire and this calf came out. .... and on and on. Since Aaron had been involved from the very beginning before he and Moses hit Egypt and dealt with all the events before the people were freed, his fearfulness of the people must have put him in their "gang". [I've obviously read this many times and thought about it very intensely.]
Now, what am I waiting for? As my age increases, since I ain't a young' un any more, I'm waiting for the Lord to open doors and let me know exactly how to serve Him, day by day. And, day by day, focusing on trusting Him, b/c our world is not my home.
Blessings... and sorry if this is annoyingly long, but you dropped that scriptural portion in and it hit me and then I had to "hit" you with my view.
I am also one that tries to "push" God along--attempting to make things happen. I've recently recognized it as manipulating situations. I too am learning faith in the waiting.
I struggle with this so much! Sometimes I can be patient for awhile, but then I'll get fed up with it and try to take matters into my own hands. I like to be in control, no matter how many times He's taught me that it's much better I'm not. Praying for you in the waiting.
Oh me too! I want to walk by faith and not by sight, trusting, waiting, believing.
So thankful for grace that accepts us no matter how many times we fail! Because I am right there with you:) Thanks for visiting!
Thanks, Mary! Yes, control is a hard thing to let go of. One step at a time, praying for grace. Blessings to you!
This is not annoying at all! Aaron is another post or two himself, isn't he? Or should I say a post about how often I am like Aaron, being influenced by others, despite what I know to be true. Good stuff to think about. I'm so glad you commented!
love the analogy!
So many times I find myself standing in judgement of the Israelites and then...well, God shows me how we are just the same in so many different ways. But I love that He uses these stories to gently nudge our hearts closer to Him ... reminding us of His patience and love.
oh girl i'm so proud of you for taking a blogging hiatus. and christina, welcome! thank you for such a brave and beautiful post.
Christina, I stink at waiting too. But this is so true "The knowing has to sink into the heart before faith can be lived out
in the waiting." We can have all the head knowledge in the world but until it penetrates our hearts it wont impact our lives they way God wants it too.
Yes, so true. And I'm so thankful for His grace that is patient with me even while I am not patient with Him. Thanks for visiting!
Thank you, Emily! Michelle definitely deserves a break and she was so sweet to ask me to fill in:) So glad you stopped by!
Yes, I learn over and over about myself from reading about the Israelites. So thankful that He is so patient. Thanks, Jen!
Thanks, friend!
Welcome Christina, and thanks for giving Michelle this break.
It's always been a wonder to me that Aaron helped build the calf. None of us are immune. Thank you for this reminder.
I was in the waiting today, too. Whole different perspective though. ;)
Yes, wise words about living in the present, and to wait for God's timing...Nice to meet you, Christina, here... I wish I could have met you at She Speaks, but with 650 women...Blessings :) And Michelle, hope you're having fun with your family on vacay...I took about a 2 week break from blogging.
One of the biggest challenges I have faced is giving up control and putting everything into His hands. I am such a control freak, lol. It definitely has been a lesson in humility, among other things. :-) "All things in God's time" and "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me" have become two of my favorites lately. Thanks for a beautiful post!