Hear It on Sunday, Use It on Monday: More on My Big, Fat Idol


We talked about idols yesterday in church, and if you’ve been reading this blog for even a few weeks, you already know that I struggle with a big, fat idol: the writing life. I’ve written about this struggle before, but the long and the short of it is that my deepest personal desire and ambition is to become a full-time writer and a published author, and sometimes that ambition takes priority over just about everything else in my life. Including God.
I didn’t recognize my big, fat idol for a long time because it cleverly masquerades as something positive and good. After all, I reason, I write about God and faith – how bad can that possibly be?
Inherently, it’s not bad at all. A passion, an ambition or an enjoyment only becomes a problem, an idol, when it begins to dominate everything else, and most especially when it begins to dominate God himself. I’ve learned recently that even though my passion is intricately connected to God, it still has the capacity to displace God if I let it…which I often do.
Yesterday in his sermon Pastor Greg suggested that once we recognize our idol, the key to remedying the problem is to replace the idol with a new passion, specifically a passion for God. “To replace your idols, Jesus must become the master of your heart,” said Greg.
The problem, I thought immediately when I heard his suggestion, is that my idol is appealingly concrete. Creating a writing life seems doable, attainable, but cultivating a passion for God? That feels too amorphous to me. Exactly how does one “cultivate a passion for God” or “allow Jesus to become the master of your heart?” It sounds great on paper, but a little loosey-goosey when I actually think about making it happen in my everyday life.
I should have known Pastor Greg wouldn’t stop at the loosey-goosey, and yesterday’s sermon was no exception. He wasn’t about to let me off the hook.
“How do you make God the central passion of your life?” Greg asked. “You work at it.”
Turns out, I don’t need to look any further than my church’s own mission statement for a list of concrete steps:
Worship. Grow. Serve. Give. Invite.
It’s true. When I slack off in my pursuit of God, when I let any of these areas slide, my focus easily shifts from God to myself, from his needs and desires to my own.
Honestly it’s frightfully easy for me to get lazy in my pursuit of God. I’m inclined to skip my morning Bible study after I’ve watched one too many episodes of House Hunters and stayed up too late the night before. I’m tempted to sleep through Sunday service when from beneath the cozy comforter I hear the Nebraska wind howling. I reason that I’ve “served enough” lately or that I’ve “given enough” for now. I get squeamish when offered the opportunity to talk about God outside my faith community.
Yet when I consider these five steps I clearly see how they all contribute to cultivating a passion for God:
Worship keeps me actively praising and thanking God.
Growing through Bible study, morning devotions and my small-group study keeps God’s word front and center in my life.
Serving my community places others’ needs before my own, and reminds me to be grateful for the many blessings in my life.
Giving shifts my focus from my own wants to the needs of someone else.
Inviting encourages me to step out of my comfort zone to express how God impacts my everyday life.
It’s work, sure; honestly, it's a lot of work. But if these steps can help me keep my big, fat idol subdued and God in his rightful place, then I say it’s worth the effort.
What about you? Do you have any tips for keeping your idols at bay?

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Lyli@3dLessons4Life  – (March 5, 2012 at 1:03 AM)  

This is my 2nd week linking up.  I really enjoyed reading several of the posts last week.  What a blessing!

Your post today opens up the door on the ugly sin in my heart that we don't ever talk about with others.  It's not easy to admit that we struggle in this way.  I so appreciate your vulnerability.  It helps me hold up a mirror to myself. 

One thing that has really helped me with this struggle is memorizing Scripture verses that deal specifically with my fleshly issues.  I also have  a good friend that I meet with every 3 weeks or so who has permission to ask me tough questions.  It's a blessing to have a sister who prays for me so specifically. 

So glad I found you on the web!

Hazel Moon –   – (March 5, 2012 at 1:44 AM)  

I suppose we could put the Idol on a low carb diet and withhold sweets.  Maybe the best solution is "a time out" while we seek God.  By then the idol should become more manageable! :-)

Shari @ Leaving A Legacy  – (March 5, 2012 at 2:30 AM)  

I'm new to your link up. I've loved visiting your blog. It's so true that writing/blogging is a wonderful tool, but it has to be put into perspective, it can't take first place. I have to remind myself of this daily. Thank you for sharing.

Deb  – (March 5, 2012 at 4:13 AM)  

Yes, I too have an idol. I need to let it go and surrender everything to God but I keep holding on to it.

Amy Sullivan  – (March 5, 2012 at 5:01 AM)  

I guess my tip for keeping my idols at bay is to never think that I've mastered it. 

Writing is a big idol for me too, and therefore, I put all of these boundaries and rules on my writing life. Then, I sit and think to myself, "Self, you rock. You are keeping yourself in check."I need to let that idea go. My idol isn't like #5 on my to-do-list. I am not going to quickly complete it. I need to continue to work on it.

kendalprivette –   – (March 5, 2012 at 5:07 AM)  

oh, grrrr. kind of mired down in all that idol/humility/wisdom stuff right now. made me almost write nothing for today.... copying that mission statement onto a post it....

joan taylor –   – (March 5, 2012 at 7:07 AM)  

 Well, I believe we connected on this topic last year when I wrote Surrendered.  I can relate to your journey so well because it mirrors mine.  My tip for idol worship is surrender to God's process of unveiling your calling, His way and in His timing.  And by the way I wrote about it today over at my place: Look No More This Is It.  Isn't God absolutely amazing...

KathleenBasi –   – (March 5, 2012 at 7:17 AM)  

You and I have the same problem...at the moment the only thing that saves me is the knowledge that I *can't* have a full-time writing career, b/c my family demands are too great. I just keep trying to discern, day by day, whether I'm overdoing it on writing time--which I often do!--and focus more on my family. I know from the bottom of my heart that family focus is where I have to go in order to focus more on God. It's part of the reality of a twin vocation: family and writing (which I truly believe both of them are).

Kimberly Sullivan  – (March 5, 2012 at 7:47 AM)  

How often you pen what I have felt...I am so ashamed of my obsession with being published.  I often have to give the story to God...

Jen Ferguson –   – (March 5, 2012 at 7:52 AM)  

Oh girl, you should read the post that I'm linking up with you today.  Idols are so sneaky -- they disguise themselves in outwardly good things and then tear up our heart without us recognizing it immediately.  I'm learning to listen -- when I start to get that slow gut feeling, I know I need to pay attention to the state of my heart and not my outward appearance.

Shanda Oakley –   – (March 5, 2012 at 9:16 AM)  

Michelle, I have been convicted by the same thing lately. In fact, my post today is a repost because last night I felt God impressing on my thought that HE was more important than all my goals and pursuits in life.  He wanted me to just pray and be with Him instead of working--even working on all my 'good' things. 

Kim  – (March 5, 2012 at 9:16 AM)  

Our pastor talks about idols in a way that makes sense to me....idols are good things that we turn into ultimate things. And Greg is right. Only God should be ultimate...our central passion. And I agree with you. That feels hard to hold onto. Worship. Grow. Serve. Give. Invite. That makes it a lot easier to grasp. I really like this, Michelle.

donnapyle –   – (March 5, 2012 at 9:55 AM)  

Idols can be sneaky that way. They wear the disguise to doing what God's called us to do, yet before we know it, it's the god we serve. It's the one we choose to spend time with. All the while, God is knocking on the door of our hearts. Looking for us in the garden in the cool of the day. And we wear our idols like fig leaves. God sees right through them each time. The de-puffs our puffed up goals to remind us that He is the only breath we need. Love it when He does that!

JosephPote –   – (March 5, 2012 at 10:18 AM)  

Good post, Michelle!

It is a struggle and continual refocusing on Christ is the solution.

It is not easy! 

Jean Wise  – (March 5, 2012 at 10:38 AM)  

Thoughtful post, Michelle.  I think imaging putting whatever I am clinging to into God's hands helps me.  Praying to order what Ignatius called our disordered attachments.  Like you said some things we cling to, our passions, are good and God given we just make them number one.  We probably will never really master this: but keep faithful in trying.

Nacole –   – (March 5, 2012 at 12:25 PM)  

hi Michelle! i'm new! i'm very happy to "meet" you!

i relate. i was just thinking last night that my writing seems to threaten to overtake everything, kind of like the blob. i want to find that place of balance. Husband and i had a huge talk about it at bedtime last night. and i am thinking of writing something about this. *wink*.

when i submitted my piece, there was an error with the pic. i don't know if you want me to try submitting again?  but, no worries.

blessings to you! 

Laurie Collett –   – (March 5, 2012 at 12:49 PM)  

Thanks for the excellent post! Anything can become an idol if we let it, even things that are inherently good and that He can use for His glory. This includes Christian service, participation in public worship services (preaching, teaching, singing, etc.). In my life, it's our dance ministry that sometimes claims too much attention and time and risks becoming an idol.
God bless,
Laurie Collett


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rmoon2004 –   – (March 5, 2012 at 1:59 PM)  

It is true that anything can become an idol to us, but you have outlined the steps that help us to focus on God first and place all else after that.

Jennifer@GDWJ  – (March 5, 2012 at 2:09 PM)  

I always appreciate your honesty. This speaks to my heart, Michelle. I just read a post over at Flickers of a Faithful Firefly. She had linked up with Deidra's Sunday series, and she quoted from The Message. I had never seen this version of John 15:5. But in it, a relationship with God is described as "intimate and organic." 

So much of my relationship with God can feel regimented and routine. I'm pretty Type-A, and like you, I desire the concrete, not the amorophous. The Message version of John 15:5 suggests something entirely different. There is no neat takeaway, no three-step process. It's just open heart and open hands in the midst of a very intimate, organic relationship. 

I think that sounds deliciously adventurous. :) 

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 5, 2012 at 4:46 PM)  

Welcome - thanks for joining the Hear It, Use It community, Nacole. Feel free to try your image again...but don't sweat it if it doesn't work. Linky is quirky (and annoying) like that sometimes.

I'm looking forward to reading your post. And yeah, my writing life tends to act a lot like "the blob" too -- love that very fitting analogy! :)

Amy @ themessymiddle  – (March 5, 2012 at 5:16 PM)  

Oh Michelle, though I don't know you, I get you. This would be my biggest struggle as of late. I want so much to be able to support myself through my writing -- so that I'll have more options than I feel I do now. But it's what you called it ... an idol. I need to keep my eyes on God! The author (love it!) and perfecter of my faith.

thefisherlady  – (March 5, 2012 at 7:11 PM)  

Well shared Michelle, and I love Amy's part about Jesus being the Author and Perfector of our Faith... believing with you!
Great Photo!

soulstops –   – (March 5, 2012 at 9:43 PM)  

is something in the air because I confessed an idol in my post today... for me, regular confession and spending time with God so as to cultivate an open (my 2012) heart and attitude towards God, but I also recognize it is all grace...His grace saves and His grace sanctifies, so I do pray for grace...

Connie@raise your eyes  – (March 5, 2012 at 10:12 PM)  

Just show me anything good, and I can make an idol out of it with very little effort. And so, I believe you've hit upon the remedy... I need to put some effort to stay GOD, in my thoughts, words, in my deeds.

Sandra Heska King  – (March 5, 2012 at 10:37 PM)  

Why do pastors insist on meddling?

Dianna Kennedy  – (March 6, 2012 at 7:47 AM)  

Oh, Michelle, I can empathize with your struggle! As my blog grows, and I get the feeling that more people are impacted positively, it's so easy for me to become obsessed ..... and trip, feeling so proud of myself. I have to tread cautiously, knowing that writing is a gift from God, and I need to aim people back that way. 

Isn't it funny - that when we were younger, I think we thought of idols as things that were easy to identify -- sometimes they slip up on you. 

Have a marvelous week!

Megan Willome  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:53 AM)  

Hey, girl. Ditch that red pen. Editors use blue. It's a kinder, gentler way of saying, "maybe you should try THIS instead."

Janice J  – (March 6, 2012 at 9:45 AM)  

Dang, I was about to skip my morning Bible study and jump right into a writing assignment. Seriously, thanks for a well-timed kick in the pants!

mamaabby –   – (March 6, 2012 at 10:18 AM)  

I was trying to think how I could say this without seeming like I know more than your pastor;} but you just asked the question at the end, so, though I love all of those elements that you mention for me, it's the cross.  It's the looking to the focal point of all time...our redemption...and a continual surrender to the One who made a way and who is worthy of everything because he is the Lamb who was slain...maybe this is just how He made me, to not be satisfied by anything but fanning the deepest flame in the purest way I know how;} 

And you, I always appreciate your teachability and openness to growth and learning what it is to love Him...it is an encouraging journey for anyone who enters it:}

Kelli Parker Becton  – (March 6, 2012 at 10:48 AM)  

yeah yeah yeah, (picture a kid with their hands over their ears singing LaLa LaLa really loudly - so I don't have to hear it) :) I needed to hear it - I have a passion for writing and a passion for reaching others for Jesus and a passion for our homeschool - I kid myself sometimes that my priorities are all in line - but it is a hard one to balance - this writing passion- Thank you for sharing this- I'll take my hands off my ears now :) focusing , keeping my eyes on Jesus - taking it to Him in prayer- the only way for me to straighten out - God bless!

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:37 PM)  

That is exactly how He made you Abby, and you are such an incredible inspiration to me - you faith is truly a beautiful thing. It's going to carry you far, far, far.

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:37 PM)  

Ha - this one made me laugh, Kelli! You are too cute...I've been known to clap my hands over my ears from time to time!

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:38 PM)  

Yup, been there -- skipping the morning Bible study for the computer. You are in good company, Janice!

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:39 PM)  

Are you staying I'm being too hard on myself?

Michelle DeRusha  – (March 6, 2012 at 8:40 PM)  

They do sneak up on us don't they -- those cleverly disguised idols are the worst!

Kathleen Jaeger  – (March 7, 2012 at 12:27 AM)  

Hi Michelle,
I am linking up for the first time. Found my way hear through Jen's SDG where I've lurked a bunch and linked a bit.

Re: Idols, have you heard of or done Kelly Minter's Bible Study called No Other Gods? What you spoke of in your post today really reminded me of that study.  Where things that seemingly glorify God can turn into idols....my big one is relationships. God has called us into community and to serve & love others but I can so easily get my focus on people instead of Him.  So thankful that He prunes and grows us tenderly...even tho' the discipline at the moment doesn't seem pleasant!!

path of treasure  – (March 8, 2012 at 12:50 AM)  

Oh my, how often I've skipped the Bible study for the computer. ugh. It hurts. Anything can be an idol. Nothing is off limits, and none of us is ever immune. Thanks for sharing, Michelle. 

Denise J. Hughes  – (March 8, 2012 at 1:29 AM)  

I can see how my passion for writing could rival my passion for God ~ even when I'm writing ABOUT God. Fabulously wise words here. I love this post!

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