The Storyteller


Anyone who met my father-in-law, Jon Johnson, even briefly knew almost immediately that he loved to tell a good story. Those of us who knew Jon well probably heard most of his stories – many of us heard his favorites multiple times. After a while we didn’t bother trying to interrupt him to mention that we’d heard a particular one before. We learned: If Jon wanted to tell a story, the story would be told.
No one loved Jon’s stories more than his grandkids, and they never tired of them, not even the repeats. From the time they could talk, Noah and Rowan would plant themselves in Papa’s lap – one boy on the left knee, one boy on the right – lean against his chest and beg for a story, sometimes even two or three times a day. I don’t know how he did it, one fantastical yarn after another, but Papa never declined the opportunity to spin a tale. Snuggled into the wing chair or piled onto the hammock, the boys would listen with rapt attention, oblivious to everything else around them.
Eager for a few minutes of free time, I usually didn’t linger to catch more than a snippet or two, so I can’t tell you exactly what Jon’s stories were about. I do recall a frequent mention of pirates and the occasional mummy, and once or twice we did suggest he go a little easy at bedtime, even if the boys begged for the “scariest one ever.”
The last time the boys and I saw Jon in late December, he was too ill to participate in most of his typical shenanigans: chase games and tickling, couch pillow forts, '50s dance parties and root beer floats. At one point, though, when neither Papa nor the boys could be found, we finally discovered them tucked into the walk-in closet.
 “Shhhh! Go away!” Rowan admonished when I peered into the dark.
“Just wondering what you guys are doing in here,” I said, stepping one foot into the closet.  In the dimness I glimpsed three bodies buried beneath a mound of pillows and blankets near the back.
“We’re fine, Mommy, we’re fine,” Noah said. “Papa’s just telling us a story.”


We’ll sure miss you and your stories, Jon, even the ones we’ve heard before…. especially the ones we’ve heard before. Most of all, we are so very grateful to have been a part of your story.

{29 Days of Quiet will resume tomorrow. Thank you for grace...and prayers. Jon passed away yesterday. We will miss him dearly - he was the light of my kids' lives.}

Sela Toki –   – (February 17, 2012 3:17 AM)  

Tears Michelle, even when I know Jon is in a much better place.  Just the thought of this world without him for your children, is so very sad.  He reminds me of my father, big, huggable and so full of love and life.  A teddy bear of a man.   My heart goes out to you and your family.  God bless you all during this time of grief.   Hugs.

Patricia W Hunter –   – (February 17, 2012 5:02 AM)  

What a wonderful legacy your father-in-law left for his grands. (((Hugs))) Thinking of you and your family...and praying the Lord's presence brings comfort as only He can.

SouthernGalThoughts –   – (February 17, 2012 5:50 AM)  

Oh, Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss.  The boys will alway remember their papa through the stories you will tell them.
Praying for you all.    Isaiah 43:2

Kim –   – (February 17, 2012 6:32 AM)  

Thinking of you and your family as you walk this journey of grief and praying that all the wonderful memories will help lighten the path in the coming days. 

Gaby  – (February 17, 2012 6:32 AM)  

Oh, friend, I'm so sorry to hear that. My prayers are with your family. What a wonderful tribute you wrote. 

Amy Sullivan  – (February 17, 2012 7:08 AM)  

Praying for you and Brad and the boys.

Karna Converse –   – (February 17, 2012 7:32 AM)  

What a beautiful tribute.  You're in my thoughts and prayers

Sheila Seiler Lagrand  – (February 17, 2012 8:05 AM)  

 Tears and relief for you and yours, Michelle. And prayers. Fervent ones. 

kd sullivan  – (February 17, 2012 8:14 AM)  

I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'll be praying for your sweet family.

Jennifer@GDWJ  – (February 17, 2012 8:19 AM)  

Oh Michelle. Grace and peace and COMFORT to you all.  Sending you bushels of love from our farm...

Keep telling those stories, friend. They'll keep the flame of memory alive and burning strong for your boys.
Love you, 
Jennifer 

Shelly Miller  – (February 17, 2012 8:29 AM)  

What a beautiful tribute Michelle, made tears spill this morning over the keys. Praying for you and your family as you grieve. The stories will keep his memory alive.

donnapyle –   – (February 17, 2012 9:03 AM)  

What beautiful memories you've shared with us. You can always tell those who truly love children because it doesn't matter what they're doing or what's on their agenda, they will always stop to give time and tell stories to children. What a wondeful man he must have been!

kendal  – (February 17, 2012 9:19 AM)  

oh, michelle. praying for your family. this piece is beautiful....

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:29 AM)  

I think that's the hardest part in all this, Sela - knowing my kids won't get to spend more time with him. But he was a truly wonderful, engaged, super fun grandfather, so they were blessed by the time they did get with him.

Thank you so much for your support.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:29 AM)  

Thank you for your love and prayers, Patricia.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:30 AM)  

The memories are very good, Kim, and it does help. Thank you, friend.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:30 AM)  

Thank you so much for your prayers, Gaby.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:30 AM)  

Thank you, Amy - we are grateful for your prayers.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:36 AM)  

Yes, there is relief here, too, Sheila, you are right. It was a grueling two months. He is with God and his beloved wife, Janice, and we are so grateful and happy for that.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:36 AM)  

Thank you for the prayers - they mean so much to us right now.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:37 AM)  

Thank you, Jennifer. We have so many sweet memories of both Jon and Janice -- they will alway be alive in our hearts.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:37 AM)  

Thank you Shelly, and thank you so much for your kind words and prayers.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:38 AM)  

Jon was exactly that way, Donna -- his grandkids were his number one priority always, right up until the end.

Thank you so much for your kindness here today.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:38 AM)  

Thank you for your prayers and comfort, Kendal.

Lisa notes  – (February 17, 2012 9:47 AM)  

Oh no. That was too fast. :-( I'm glad he's reunited with the love of his life  now, but I know you all will miss him terribly. Hardly time to grieve your m-i-l before another loss. Unfortunately I know how hard that is. May the Lord give you what you need to comfort each other.

leslie  – (February 17, 2012 9:48 AM)  

Oh, Michelle. I am weeping for you all... this was so precious. I love the photo at the top. May God hold you close.

smoothstones –   – (February 17, 2012 9:50 AM)  

Did he whisker rub, too? Bet your kids will grow up with the gift of story.

I'm sorry for your pain but glad for Jon's victory over it. God bless.

Kfrancis1 –   – (February 17, 2012 9:52 AM)  

Oh Michelle. I am truly sorry for your loss. But what an addition to God's kingdom! Just think of the stories being told in Heaven this day. So gald that he is reunited with Janice. Prayers for your family.

Sharon O –   – (February 17, 2012 10:45 AM)  

It is wonderful you have pictures and memories and stories to remember, so sad but try to remember the 'good warm' places in your heart that included him and your boys. Perhaps you can even do some writing about them so each boy can have 'memories' for later years to read over and over with pictures along side the stories. Just a suggestion.

JosephPote –   – (February 17, 2012 11:10 AM)  

What wonderful memories for your boys to cherish of their grandfather! 

I bet they will carry the story-telling tradition forward, with the addition of their own personalities.

Linda Chontos –   – (February 17, 2012 11:31 AM)  

I am so very sorry Michelle. Praying you will feel His great arms of love around you.

Courtney Buxton  – (February 17, 2012 11:49 AM)  

Oh goodness, I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Michelle. Those pictures are precious. Praying for you.

Debbie Grace –   – (February 17, 2012 11:50 AM)  

So very sorry for your loss, Michelle and family . . .

I'm a relatively new follower but feel priviledged to have glimsped this very special man thru your eyes.  I have tears as I read today's post which was such a lovely tribute.  May he rest in peace.

denise  – (February 17, 2012 11:52 AM)  

So sorry Michelle for your family's loss... thankful that you have the comfort of knowing he's in better hands now.  What a gift in the memories (and pictures) that your boys have of their precious papa.

Jean Wise  – (February 17, 2012 12:03 PM)  

So sorry to hear this, Michelle.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  What a beautiful tribute this is and great photo to capture his memory. 

Read this quote the other day: Maybe this will give just a little comfort and at last represent a hug across cyberspace:
















“Some people
think we’re made of flesh and blood and bones. Scientists say we’re made of
atoms. But I think we’re made of stories, When we die, that’s what people
remember, the stories of our lives and the stories that we told.”  Ruth Stotter

Sheila Seiler Lagrand  – (February 17, 2012 12:11 PM)  

It took me a long, long time to become comfortable with the relief. I had to figure out it didn't diminish my grief...it was just part of it.

Wishing you that.

Diana Trautwein –   – (February 17, 2012 12:13 PM)  

Oh, Michelle. This just made me weep. I am so, so sorry for this painful loss in your life. I cannot imagine a finer tribute to anyone than this short, sweet one you've written here.  Prayers for comfort for all of you - this journey of remembering through grief will continue for a long time. And sharing these stories? HUGELY important. Keep your boys talking about him, looking at pictures, even writing brief remembrances for them to tuck away. He can still be a part of their lives, just not in the way you would have wished. Lots of love to you, dear friend.

Joanne Palm –   – (February 17, 2012 12:59 PM)  

I'm thinking about you and your family, Michelle.  I pray that God blesses you with comfort, strength, and serenity, knowing that your father-in-law is safe in his Saviour's arms. 

joan taylor –   – (February 17, 2012 1:00 PM)  

What beautiful and fond memories you and your family have to hold on to.  I know that your loss is great, but God is greater.  The Lord embraced your father in law with bated breath and open arms.  And I am certain that He will continue to comfort and keep you all.  

Wendi Herbin –   – (February 17, 2012 1:10 PM)  

Thank you for sharing those memories of Brad's father, and in such a beautiful way.  Wishing you, Brad and the boys peace in your hearts.
Wendi

Dawn Gonzalez –   – (February 17, 2012 2:34 PM)  

A beautiful tribute, Michelle. You've done your father-in-law proud here. XO

DeborahJoy –   – (February 17, 2012 4:17 PM)  

I'm so sorry... Sending heartfelt love and consolation across the ocean and prayers to our Father in heaven, that He will continue to hold you all in His mighty embrace, always.

Tamara Murphy  – (February 17, 2012 4:34 PM)  

Thank you for sharing your father-in-law with us here.  Thank you and may the God of both Story and Comfort meet you and your boys in very meaningful ways as you grieve.

Lucy Araujo –   – (February 17, 2012 5:03 PM)  

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In Christ always,
*** Lucy
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Jan Macy –   – (February 17, 2012 5:19 PM)  

What a treasure.  What wonderful memories he has made for you, your sons, and the rest of the family.  

I pray your sons will remember these stories and the times with him for the rest of their life.  

Not everyone has a Papa who is a gifted story-teller.  Now that is very very special.  

Thinking & praying for you.  

Deb  – (February 17, 2012 6:15 PM)  

Peace be with you , Michelle.
Sending love for this time, to you and yours.
xoxo

Margomohney –   – (February 17, 2012 8:08 PM)  

My condolences on your loss and my prayers for your kids. It's so wonderful that they will have those beautiful memories of their time with their grandpa.

God bless your family.

Megan Willome  – (February 17, 2012 8:40 PM)  

I knew this was coming, but I'm so sorry, Michelle.

Those two photos are almost more precious than your words (almost, but not quite).

Rest well, dear friend.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:43 PM)  

You do know this pain, Lisa. And yes, it's hard. But there's some relief in it, too, that he's not lingering on the threshold any longer. I like to envision his reunion with Janice - how joyful that must be!

Thank you for your comfort and prayers...

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:44 PM)  

Thank you so much, Leslie. It's bittersweet, actually. We are so glad he's reunited with Janice, but we miss him so much already.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:45 PM)  

My husband, Brad, inherited his dad's gift of storytelling too, so he will certainly keep up the tradition and carry on his dad's legacy.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:46 PM)  

I'm thinking a lot of the reunion with Janice -- that gives me comfort, as do all the prayers and support we are receiving from so many people like you. Thank you, Karen.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:46 PM)  

I really like that suggestion, Sharon - thank you so much for sharing it.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:47 PM)  

I can see the seed has been planted already - my oldest especially loves writing stories, and I think Rowan will be a natural storyteller himself.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:47 PM)  

Thank you for your prayers and encouragement, Courtney.

Emily Wierenga –   – (February 17, 2012 9:48 PM)  

oh no, i am so, so sorry michelle... what a gentle beautiful man. i am praying for you.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:48 PM)  

Thank you, Debbie - especially for reaching out when you don't know me well! So glad you are here with us today.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:49 PM)  

I absolutely love that quote, Jean - thank you SO much for sharing it with me today.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:53 PM)  

We've had much practice since my mother-in-law passed away last year. We still talk about her a lot and have so many wonderful memories of her, as well as her beautiful paintings hanging on our walls. Just today Rowan said, "I think Papa and Haukebo [that's what they called Janice] are dancing right now in Heaven!" Such a sweet vision.

Thank you for your kindness, prayers, encouragement and comfort all along this way, Diana. I truly appreciate it. 

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:53 PM)  

Thank you for that beautiful and comforting prayer, Joanne.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:54 PM)  

What a beautiful message and vision, Joan. Thank you for that sweet comfort tonight.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:55 PM)  

XO back to you, Dawn - thank you for all the prayers along the way.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:55 PM)  

Feeling your love and comfort across the miles, Deborah. Thank you.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:56 PM)  

What a beautiful sentiment, Tamara -- thank you for that blessing tonight.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 17, 2012 9:57 PM)  

Papa was one of a kind for the boys - he will not be forgotten, nor will his stories. Thank you so much for your prayers and kindness tonight, Jan.

Ann Kroeker  – (February 18, 2012 9:12 AM)  

He sounds like a wonderful man, Michelle. Thank you for letting us peek in the closet with you and step back, hushed, so the stories could be whispered in the dark. You'll keep telling them, because you, too, are a storyteller.

Matthew Kreider  – (February 18, 2012 10:43 AM)  

"We're fine, Mommy." We find an enduring safety through our shared stories, don't we? No matter what happens.

Relationships, like stories, never truly leave us. so curl up and stay warm in our prayers, friend.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 18, 2012 6:43 PM)  

Thank you, Emily. I read your post today, and I am praying for you, too. Those boys are so very lucky to have you and Trent.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 18, 2012 6:44 PM)  

Thank you, Ann. We miss him so much already - part of me can't quite believe he's gone, even though we knew it was coming.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 18, 2012 6:45 PM)  

Such a comforting image and thought, Matthew - curling up and staying warm in the prayers of so many who care about us. Thanks for leaving me with that beautiful picture of comfort tonight.

Kerry Allor –   – (February 18, 2012 10:42 PM)  

Sending thoughts and prayers to your family Michelle. Sounds like your family was very blessed by this wonderful man.

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 19, 2012 7:28 PM)  

Thank you so much for your kindness, Kerry.

cherylsmith  – (February 19, 2012 10:52 PM)  

So sorry to hear of your loss. Grateful for the time your boys had with your father-in-law. 

Praying for you and your family!

soulstops –   – (February 19, 2012 11:21 PM)  

Jon sounds like a wonderful papa and storyteller.  Sorry to hear of your loss.  Praying for God's comfort for you and your family.

Charming's Mama  – (February 20, 2012 1:52 PM)  

Oh, Michelle, I so sorry for your loss.  I will continue to pray for you and your family during this time of mourning.  Having walked that road before with my own parents, I can tell you that perhaps those feeling of loss, although the never go away, at least they haven't for me, they do get more bearable with time.  Small comfort perhaps, certainly well intended.

Glenda Childers –   – (February 23, 2012 8:12 PM)  

I have been travelling, so I am late to read this sweet post. I am so sorry to know that you have lost your father.in.law. This is a beautiful piece you have written to honor him.

Fondly,
Glenda

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