A Quiet Gesture...and a Not-So-Quiet (in) Real Life Invitation! {day twenty-three}


"Who in the world's at the door at this hour?" I wonder aloud when the doorbell rings at 7:30 p.m., because, after all, 7:30 is late for doorbell ringing at our house.
I'm in my pajamas, because it is 7:30 on a Friday night, so I crack the door just an inch or so and peer into the cold darkness. The Hyvee Florist van rumbles in the driveway, and on my doorstep stands the delivery lady, a box bursting pink and green in her hands.
I hold the glass door open wider, and that's when I smell the lush scent of spring wafting up from the cardboard box.

At the kitchen counter I take the card from its tiny envelope and read it aloud to Brad: "Love you, praying with you -- Deidra and Harry." Tears spring to my eyes, and I bury my nose deep into delicate petals spread open wide.
All week long the house breathes the essence of spring. When I push open the front door and stumble into the foyer, arms laden with backpacks and lunch bags, a grocery sack and the mail, the heady scent of hyacinth hits me, and my heart beats with hope.

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(in) Real Life...Nebraska-Style!

Some of you might know that I first met met Deidra online. Even though her house is less than two miles from mine, I came across her blog, Jumping Tandem first, and then, miraculously ran into her in a Lincoln coffee shop one cold winter night two years ago. We recognized each other from our tiny profile pictures on our blogs. I just love, love, love that we have become real-life friends, and am so grateful for the encouragement and support she lavishes on me, not just during this time of grief for my family, but always!

You know what's even more amazing? Deidra's not the only woman I've come to know and love in these two years I've been blogging. It's been the most beautiful and unexpected blessing -- that these online relationships and friendships are real and rich and fulfilling…just like in “real life.”
So…maybe some of you are familiar with the (in) courage community and have heard about the upcoming (in) Real Life meet-ups that are taking place in cities and towns around the nation and the world?

Well I have good news for you – Deidra, our Lincoln super cute blogger friend Erin (who is 39 weeks pregnant and still super cute!)  from Home with the Boys and I are hosting a real live meet-up right here in Lincoln, Nebraska – at my house, I might add! {maybe I should mention this to my husband sometime soon?! Ah, honey...are you reading this?!}
That’s right! And we are inviting YOU to attend. Come hang out with us and eat scones (because you know there will be scones if I’m hosting) on Saturday, April 28, at 11 a.m. here in Lincoln, Nebraska! [click here to see who's signed up for the Lincoln meet-up so far].
To R.S.V.P. to the Lincoln meet-up, please register here or click the button at the bottom of this post. Or, leave me a comment with your email (or send me an email directly: michellederusha1@gmail.com) if you need more details or want to come, and I will try to answer any questions you may have. By officially registering, not only will you get the chance to meet Deidra, Erin and me in person (tee hee hee!), and eat the best scones ever (homemade by my husband, who does not know he will be doing this yet!), you'll also get a really cool t-shirt from (in) courage and the opportunity to connect with super cool, fun, wonderful women in our community! {and we'll have some fab door prizes!}

Also, hop over to Deidra’s and Erin’s today, too – all three of us are writing about the Lincoln (in) RL meet-up. This is so fun! Come on, register...you totally know you want to! And stay tuned for more...

Mary Bonner  – (February 23, 2012 6:25 AM)  

I am not surprised Deidra sent you flowers.  She's like that, you know.  Now...as for this in(RL) thing - I SO wish I lived in Nebraska, right now!  I probably wouldn't wish that next winter, but ahem...I hope you guys enjoy your day!!  I thought about hopping on a plane, but I guess that kind of defeats the purpose.  Send me a scone? :-) 

Harriett –   – (February 23, 2012 7:06 AM)  

Aww. *smiles big*

That is the sweetest thing -- and I love it that you are getting together with others in "real" life. *holds back jealous feelings*

God bless that time together.

You gonna dust?

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 7:41 AM)  

Every time. Every single time. You leave a comment. I laugh. Heck yeah I'm gonna dust!!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 7:42 AM)  

Come on, Mary - hop on a plane - you can stay here! I have a guest room with its own bathroom!! And you could have dinner with the cavemen - how's that for an enticement! :)

Gaby  – (February 23, 2012 8:05 AM)  

Isn't God good to fill our lives with friends real and "imaginary" (like our blog friends) and even more with imaginary-friends-turned-real? I am attending one of these IRL meetings and looking forward to meeting one particular blogger I love. I wish I could meet you too!

Jennifer@GDWJ  – (February 23, 2012 8:16 AM)  

How exciting! I signed up to lead a meet-up, too, but so far haven't had anyone sign up. Maybe I need to publicize it. :) And then see if Scott will make scones. 

I love that Deidra sent flowers. Your friendship is beautiful. Love you both. 

donnapyle –   – (February 23, 2012 9:30 AM)  

I love when online friends become real life friends. A huge blessing! What an awesome idea, Michelle! I live a tad too far away to attend, but I want to hear all about how it went. And of course, if there's scones involved, it's going to be grand. :)

DeborahJoy –   – (February 23, 2012 10:19 AM)  

wish I could come and meet you 3 in person, but in the meantime I'll be happy with virtual connections. Keep posting, sisters :)

Megan Willome  – (February 23, 2012 11:08 AM)  

So sweet of Deidra & Harry to do that for you!

And scones? I'd so be there!

JosephPote –   – (February 23, 2012 11:38 AM)  

Wow!  Sounds like a great time! 

Wish I could attend.  Eat an extra scone, for me, will you? 

Sharon O –   – (February 23, 2012 4:55 PM)  

Oh I wish I could... all the way from Oregon.
SOMEDAY... I will meet some of my favorite people who blog to encourage others.

Jan Macy –   – (February 23, 2012 7:45 PM)  

HEY!  Central KS isn't that far from Lincoln, NE.  Maybe I could do that.  That would be so exciting.  

Glenda Childers –   – (February 23, 2012 8:08 PM)  

This sounds so fun. I need to find a Chicago group.

Fondly,
Glenda

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:26 PM)  

Check the in (RL) meet-up link, Glenda -- I'm thinking there MUST be a meet-up there!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:27 PM)  

Yes, seriously! Register if you think you can swing it, and then we'll be able to send you an official e-invite. Would love to meet you in person, Jan!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:27 PM)  

Maybe there's an Oregon meet-up, Sharon? I wish you lived closer to NE -- it would be fun to meet you in person!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:28 PM)  

Always willing to comply when it comes to extra scone-eating! :)

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:28 PM)  

You haven't tasted scones till you try Brad's -- melt-in-your -mouth...it's a real problem for me!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:29 PM)  

Grateful for the virtual connections, too, Deborah!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:29 PM)  

I would LOVE to meet you in person, Donna. Maybe at a writers' conference or retreat someday? 

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:30 PM)  

OR you could just head to NE and stay at my house! Pretty please!!

Michelle DeRusha  – (February 23, 2012 8:30 PM)  

Yay, Gaby - I'm glad you signed up for a meet-up (thought I have to say, I wish it was the Nebraska one!). 

Deidra  – (February 23, 2012 9:43 PM)  

Yes! There are 5 meetups in and around Chicago! Click the link and search Chicago.

http://www.meetup.com/incouragemeetups/

Deidra  – (February 23, 2012 9:45 PM)  

There's a meetup in Bend, Oregon. Is that near you, Sharon? Click this link and search Oregon: 
http://www.meetup.com/incouragemeetups/

Deidra  – (February 23, 2012 9:46 PM)  

Shall I tweet about your meetup? :)

Lbmoreland –   – (February 26, 2012 3:50 PM)  

How delightful it would be to rsvp...but my Tx town is not in your neighborhood so must be content with wishing your event every possible success!

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