Being Ron
>> Friday, March 4, 2011 –
joy
Meet Ron.
I've worked with Ron for nearly nine years at Nebraska public television and radio, and I simply have to say: this man is amazing.
Ron is in his 80s...but you would never know it. He doesn't look it, and he certainly doesn't act it. This is the man who recently returned from a trip to Antarctica, where he spent two weeks exploring the frozen, barren landscape. Last year he hiked the Himalayas in Bhutan. And not too long ago he flew through the Amazon jungle on a zip line with his grandchildren.
If I were in my 80s I would not vacation on an iceberg, and I certainly wouldn't schlep to the office every day if I didn't have to. I might settle into the recliner with the New Yorker and a heating pad pressed against the small of my back, but not Ron. His car, a zippy, red Cooper Mini, is often one of the first in the parking lot each morning. And that's the way it's been since the beginning, back in 1955 when Ron was hired as a producer/director for Nebraska public broadcasting, just shortly after the station was launched.
What's most remarkable about Ron, though, isn't his zest for adventure or his passion for public broadcasting or even his unflagging energy – it's his spirit.
In the nine years I've known Ron I've never seen him grumpy or discouraged, jaded or weary. I've never heard him utter a pessimistic or unkind word. And I've never walked away from a conversation with him feeling anything but inspired, uplifted and rejuvenated.
The 80-year-old rejuvenates the 40-year-old. Funny how that works.
My boss recently mentioned that he considers Ron to be his best friend at work. "I don't doubt it," I told Jeff. "I think a lot of people consider Ron to be their best friend here."
A couple of weeks ago I ran into Ron in the stairwell, and we climbed together toward fourth floor (it goes without saying that he was significantly less winded than I).
"Hey, Ron," I said, gripping the metal handrail and trying to sound spry. "How ya doing today?"
"Great!" Ron answered, holding the door open for me, mug of steaming coffee in his hand [note to self: drink more coffee].
I stopped in the threshold and looked him straight in the eye. "Ron, I've never heard you answer that question any other way," I said. "You're always great. You're always so happy and positive. I love that about you!"
"Well, why not?" he answered, grinning. "What's not to be happy about? Every day is a gift."
As I watched him walk down the hallway, black shirt tucked into jeans, trademark black cowboy boots, shock of white hair, I realized that I want to be more like Ron...and not just when I'm 80. I want to be more like Ron today.
I don't know anyone else like him. Ron doesn’t merely proclaim every day to be a gift. He lives it.
Do you know any Rons in your life?
Linking up with Jennifer V. Davis's Journeys series today. She's talking about "goodness," (one of the fruits of the Spirit) and Ron fits the bill!
I've worked with Ron for nearly nine years at Nebraska public television and radio, and I simply have to say: this man is amazing.
Ron is in his 80s...but you would never know it. He doesn't look it, and he certainly doesn't act it. This is the man who recently returned from a trip to Antarctica, where he spent two weeks exploring the frozen, barren landscape. Last year he hiked the Himalayas in Bhutan. And not too long ago he flew through the Amazon jungle on a zip line with his grandchildren.
If I were in my 80s I would not vacation on an iceberg, and I certainly wouldn't schlep to the office every day if I didn't have to. I might settle into the recliner with the New Yorker and a heating pad pressed against the small of my back, but not Ron. His car, a zippy, red Cooper Mini, is often one of the first in the parking lot each morning. And that's the way it's been since the beginning, back in 1955 when Ron was hired as a producer/director for Nebraska public broadcasting, just shortly after the station was launched.
What's most remarkable about Ron, though, isn't his zest for adventure or his passion for public broadcasting or even his unflagging energy – it's his spirit.
In the nine years I've known Ron I've never seen him grumpy or discouraged, jaded or weary. I've never heard him utter a pessimistic or unkind word. And I've never walked away from a conversation with him feeling anything but inspired, uplifted and rejuvenated.
The 80-year-old rejuvenates the 40-year-old. Funny how that works.
My boss recently mentioned that he considers Ron to be his best friend at work. "I don't doubt it," I told Jeff. "I think a lot of people consider Ron to be their best friend here."
A couple of weeks ago I ran into Ron in the stairwell, and we climbed together toward fourth floor (it goes without saying that he was significantly less winded than I).
"Hey, Ron," I said, gripping the metal handrail and trying to sound spry. "How ya doing today?"
"Great!" Ron answered, holding the door open for me, mug of steaming coffee in his hand [note to self: drink more coffee].
I stopped in the threshold and looked him straight in the eye. "Ron, I've never heard you answer that question any other way," I said. "You're always great. You're always so happy and positive. I love that about you!"
"Well, why not?" he answered, grinning. "What's not to be happy about? Every day is a gift."
As I watched him walk down the hallway, black shirt tucked into jeans, trademark black cowboy boots, shock of white hair, I realized that I want to be more like Ron...and not just when I'm 80. I want to be more like Ron today.
I don't know anyone else like him. Ron doesn’t merely proclaim every day to be a gift. He lives it.
Do you know any Rons in your life?
Linking up with Jennifer V. Davis's Journeys series today. She's talking about "goodness," (one of the fruits of the Spirit) and Ron fits the bill!











What an amazing story! I'm 30 or 31, and I can't imagine zipping across any line without breaking my back! How inspiring!
But I'm most inspired by the fact that he is always positive, never letting a negative comment leave his mouth. I try so so hard to live this way, but I can't seem to keep my mouth closed sometimes!
Today is a new day. Thanks for linking up!
so INSPIRING!!! I want to be like a Ron, YES I DO!!! This is a great example of how to live like our Jesus would have us to live don't you think? Love this, and you are blessed to get to be in his company...but then I would say he is blessed to have you in his :)
I think the Rons of this world are rather rare. Trying to think if I've known anyone like you describe -- there are a couple who might come close. But I don't think I can name one person who is UNFAILINGLY gentle, happy, kind, content, after a daily knowledge of that person for 9 years. That's absolutely amazing. He is a gift to the world.
What a wonderful tribute. I want to be like Ron!
My dad has secondary progressive MS. Despite a worsening condition, when asked how he's doing he always says, "Best day of my life." And truly, he finds something good in the day.
A world full or Rons would be a beautiful thing! Thanks for the inspiration today!
I know Ron as well and consider him a dear friend and an amazing character. Something you said earlier about judging people tied together this post and that one for me. Ron doesn't seem to judge people (the way I catch myself doing it). He goes to Bhutan...not to try to change them all into believing his way, or by comparing these conditions to ours...but to truly enjoy, learn and understand their culture and where they come from. He goes to Antarctica and spends most of his time getting to know the gritty tasks the scientists & crew do to make this a trip of a lifetime for everyone. He makes dates with his wife and takes her on gentler journeys that make her happy...and takes adventurous outings with kids/grand-kids that make lasting memories for them. He is an amazing storyteller and shares his lessons in life in such a positive way. I have seldom heard him judge others (unless defending an underdog or education). He is truly a lifelong learner, listener and friend, who celebrates the positive contributions of all those he meets (And he has met everyone, I swear!...just ask him and he'll talk your leg off). I’m striving for more "Ron moments" in my own life…perhaps it all comes around to less stuff…more moments! Thanks for reflection time today!
We all should have a Ron in our lives! My grandmother was my Ron... right up until she died at age 102 two years ago. Stockings, brooch, skirt, pumps, lipstick, postive thankful mindset every day. I want to be like her. :)
Be blessed this weekend, sweet friend!
I love people like that! I want to collect them and keep them in my laundry room, so when the piles get too big, I can be encouraged.
I would not, ever, never, wish to go visit an iceburg. It does not sound like a fun vacation.
But, then again, I want to keep people in my laundry room, so maybe my opinions shouldn't be taken seriously.
Also? I think that Ron looks like James Bond.
The world needs more Rons. What a fitting tribute.
What a delightful man to work with. I hope he has a chance to read your post.
I've known a few people like Ron. The world needs more like him. Great story, Michelle.
oh, you made me love him!
i love ron. and i love you, friend.
Hey! I know that guy! Well, I don't really KNOW him, but - you know what I mean. He's one of those guys you see on TV from time to time and wonder if he's like that in real life. Sounds like he is, indeed!
Wow Michelle, you are blessed to have Ron in your life and we are so thankful that you shared him with us. What a great reminder to all of us that each day is a gift.
Andie
Oh, I want to be like him.
I'm afraid I will just be grouchy.
My mother's cousin Jim, who lived to be in his early 90s, was a Ron. Always upbeat, taking a walk, working in his garden, or making a huge pot of spaghetti for a dinner at church, Jim didn't slow down till God took him Home.
I admire these creatures of God with their spirit for life and their indefatigability.(Eh, spell check no likey that word.)
I'm so sure I will be grumpy.
:)
I fear I will never be a Ron. But maybe I'm supposed to be the best version of the me God created, with all my rough edges, dark corners, and song sung in a minor key now and then. Thank you for this tribute to Ron, though. I love meeting people like him (even if introduced via keyboard). I love people who bring the joy!
I come in contact with many older people in my Friday ministry at an assisted living facility. Many of these dear people have a glow on their faces. And I am often touched by their spirits.
But, the biggest "Ron" in my life was my great-grandmother. She was spunky, and sharp. I can remember her playing hide-and-seek with my brother and I when she was 90. And, the best thing I loved about her, was the very apparent fact that she absolutely loved the Lord!
I think that's the secret to a happy soul - the appreciation of the Lord's blessings.
GOD BLESS!
I love people like that! I want to collect them and keep them in my laundry room, so when the piles get too big, I can be encouraged.
I would not, ever, never, wish to go visit an iceburg. It does not sound like a fun vacation.
But, then again, I want to keep people in my laundry room, so maybe my opinions shouldn't be taken seriously.
Also? I think that Ron looks like James Bond.
I know Ron as well and consider him a dear friend and an amazing character. Something you said earlier about judging people tied together this post and that one for me. Ron doesn't seem to judge people (the way I catch myself doing it). He goes to Bhutan...not to try to change them all into believing his way, or by comparing these conditions to ours...but to truly enjoy, learn and understand their culture and where they come from. He goes to Antarctica and spends most of his time getting to know the gritty tasks the scientists & crew do to make this a trip of a lifetime for everyone. He makes dates with his wife and takes her on gentler journeys that make her happy...and takes adventurous outings with kids/grand-kids that make lasting memories for them. He is an amazing storyteller and shares his lessons in life in such a positive way. I have seldom heard him judge others (unless defending an underdog or education). He is truly a lifelong learner, listener and friend, who celebrates the positive contributions of all those he meets (And he has met everyone, I swear!...just ask him and he'll talk your leg off). I’m striving for more "Ron moments" in my own life…perhaps it all comes around to less stuff…more moments! Thanks for reflection time today!