Be Gentle

I stop short in the driveway and stand staring. It all looks so normal, so everyday, I think to myself, observing the potted impatiens she planted in front of the garage, the Windexed windows, the kitchen light glowing inside.

Who would know what goes on behind that front door, between those brick walls? Who would guess there is grieving and sickness, tears and joy mingled bittersweet?

I watch the grandkids play tag, climb the river birch tree. They yell and laugh, scream and fall in piles on the grass.

A neighbor drives by, slows, points to my husband’s uncle’s car – a 50s Chevrolet convertible parked in the driveway – gives me a thumb’s up. He approves of the car.

But he doesn’t know. He doesn’t know that I don’t care a bit about that car, about its funky tail fins and genuine red leather interior. He doesn’t know that I don’t even see it.

...I am guest posting over at Make A Difference to One today – will you meet me over there for the rest of this story?

alicia  – (September 24, 2010 at 8:35 AM)  

Michelle,
Such a great lesson for all of us. I know I can be quick to make a snap judgement. But yes, when we try to think of what may be going on in someone's lives...how can we be mad. Thanks for sharing.

Andrea  – (September 24, 2010 at 9:09 AM)  

We may never know the real truth...we/I need to try to look through the eyes of JESUS and not our/my own.

Blessings,
andrea

Thoughts for the day  – (September 24, 2010 at 12:03 PM)  

Remembering how surreal it was when a sick one was behind the door. Life went on as normal outside and our world was not normal not yet it had to take time.
Oh I will pray for you. The writing was beautiful.

♥ Kathy  – (September 24, 2010 at 3:19 PM)  

Michelle that was so beautiful. You are in my prayers.

katdish  – (September 24, 2010 at 3:43 PM)  

So very true. We never know what burdens others carry. Hang in there.

caryjo  – (September 30, 2010 at 8:23 PM)  

MAN, do I understand what happened re: distraction. So often with my heart flitting to other places, I just miss "stuff" and it truly upsets others. Hope your heart is better.

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