Lessons from The Hole, Part 4: A Dollar a Day
>> Thursday, August 5, 2010 –
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This is my shoe rack. My summer shoe rack. My winter shoes are packed in a Rubbermaid and stashed in the back of a basement closet. Come Labor Day, I switch them out (I hold fast to the “no open-toe shoes” after Labor Day rule), along with my clothes. My shoe rack and bedroom closet are too small to contain both summer and winter shoes and clothes.
Or perhaps I should say the opposite: I have too many clothes and shoes to squeeze into my closet and shoe rack.
Richard Stearns has me thinking about abundance lately. Or, more accurately, overabundance. Consider these statistics, from The Hole in Our Gospel:
• 2.6 billion people live on less than $2 a day.
• 1 billion people live on less than $1 a day.
• 1 billion people in the world live without access to clean, safe water.
• 9 million people die every year of hunger or its related causes.
Compare those statistics to this one:
• The average American lives on $105 a day (and this is based on an annual salary of $38,611 – certainly not affluent by our standards).
This is the point at which I step on my high horse, so willing am I to point out the overabundant lifestyles of others.
“Do they really need flat screen TVs in every room,” I ask myself? “Does she really need a Tory Burch purse?” “Do they have to build a brand-new house? What was wrong with the perfectly good house they already own?”
It’s so easy for me to look disdainfully at other lifestyles – so easy for me to recognize the speck in another eye, and miss the plank in my own.
Take, for instance, this photo:
This is the back of my mini-van, stuffed full with items to bring to the Goodwill. At first glance you might think, “Well, that’s good. At least she’s donating her unused items to those in need.”
That’s what I tell myself, too. But the bigger question is why I have so many unused items in the first place. Why do I need to purchase more stuff? Why do I need 12 pairs of summer shoes? Fifteen purses?
I’m inclined to argue that I deserve such wealth. I work hard, after all. My husband works hard. Our parents worked hard. Our grandparents worked hard. Don’t we deserve to enjoy the fruits of labor? Didn’t we earn this lifestyle?
Stearns questions this attitude:
"Think about your own life. How successful would you or your family have been if you had lived in a place where there was no clean water and one quarter of all children died before their fifth birthday? These are the daily realities of the world’s poor. No matter how hard they work, how gifted and talented they are, or how big their dreams, the poor have few choices and even few opportunities to fulfill their God-given potential."
Stearns has pinpointed exactly where my attitude goes awry when I think about “the poor.” You see, it’s easy for me to assume that poor people are poor because they don’t work as hard – that they somehow deserve to be poor.
This, of course, is profoundly untrue. Stearns quotes President Clinton to make his point:
"I want you to imagine what would have happened in our lives if there had been no connection whatsoever between how hard you worked and the results you got, because that is exactly the situation faced by the more than one billion people who live on less than a dollar a day. The connection between how hard they work and the result they will get has been broken."
I’m embarrassed to admit it, but this is a revelation for me. I’ve never thought about the fact that for most of the world’s poor, hard work doesn’t make a bit of difference. These people work hard. Harder than I work. Harder than my husband works.
The distinction is that they are trapped within social, cultural, political and economic systems that are broken, that make it nearly impossible for them to succeed.
A dramatic disparity exists, that much is fact. So what’s the solution?
I go back to the verse I quoted last week, from 2 Corinthians:
Maybe this means something small: I look at my 15 purses and decide, no, I don’t need another, no matter how cute. Or I buy fewer iced coffees at Starbucks, stash the money in an envelope, and write a check to a global non-profit at the end of the year.
Or perhaps it means something more dramatic: I donate my time at the local soup kitchen.
To be honest, I'm not entirely sure what this means for me. But I'm working on figuring it out.
Have you ever thought about how the simple act of your birth determined so much about your future?
This post is Part 4 in my five-week series "Lessons from the Hole" (a response to Richard Stearns' book The Hole in Our Gospel).
Next Week's Topic: The Role of the Church
Or perhaps I should say the opposite: I have too many clothes and shoes to squeeze into my closet and shoe rack.
Richard Stearns has me thinking about abundance lately. Or, more accurately, overabundance. Consider these statistics, from The Hole in Our Gospel:
• 2.6 billion people live on less than $2 a day.
• 1 billion people live on less than $1 a day.
• 1 billion people in the world live without access to clean, safe water.
• 9 million people die every year of hunger or its related causes.
Compare those statistics to this one:
• The average American lives on $105 a day (and this is based on an annual salary of $38,611 – certainly not affluent by our standards).
This is the point at which I step on my high horse, so willing am I to point out the overabundant lifestyles of others.
“Do they really need flat screen TVs in every room,” I ask myself? “Does she really need a Tory Burch purse?” “Do they have to build a brand-new house? What was wrong with the perfectly good house they already own?”
It’s so easy for me to look disdainfully at other lifestyles – so easy for me to recognize the speck in another eye, and miss the plank in my own.
Take, for instance, this photo:
This is the back of my mini-van, stuffed full with items to bring to the Goodwill. At first glance you might think, “Well, that’s good. At least she’s donating her unused items to those in need.”
That’s what I tell myself, too. But the bigger question is why I have so many unused items in the first place. Why do I need to purchase more stuff? Why do I need 12 pairs of summer shoes? Fifteen purses?
I’m inclined to argue that I deserve such wealth. I work hard, after all. My husband works hard. Our parents worked hard. Our grandparents worked hard. Don’t we deserve to enjoy the fruits of labor? Didn’t we earn this lifestyle?
Stearns questions this attitude:
"Think about your own life. How successful would you or your family have been if you had lived in a place where there was no clean water and one quarter of all children died before their fifth birthday? These are the daily realities of the world’s poor. No matter how hard they work, how gifted and talented they are, or how big their dreams, the poor have few choices and even few opportunities to fulfill their God-given potential."
Stearns has pinpointed exactly where my attitude goes awry when I think about “the poor.” You see, it’s easy for me to assume that poor people are poor because they don’t work as hard – that they somehow deserve to be poor.
This, of course, is profoundly untrue. Stearns quotes President Clinton to make his point:
"I want you to imagine what would have happened in our lives if there had been no connection whatsoever between how hard you worked and the results you got, because that is exactly the situation faced by the more than one billion people who live on less than a dollar a day. The connection between how hard they work and the result they will get has been broken."
I’m embarrassed to admit it, but this is a revelation for me. I’ve never thought about the fact that for most of the world’s poor, hard work doesn’t make a bit of difference. These people work hard. Harder than I work. Harder than my husband works.
The distinction is that they are trapped within social, cultural, political and economic systems that are broken, that make it nearly impossible for them to succeed.
A dramatic disparity exists, that much is fact. So what’s the solution?
I go back to the verse I quoted last week, from 2 Corinthians:
I believe that God expects me – all of us living overabundant lives – to even out the imbalance, to stand in the gap. To fill the hole.“Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality, as it is written: ‘He who gathered much did not have too much, and he who gathered little did not have too little.’” 2 Corinthians 8:13-15
Maybe this means something small: I look at my 15 purses and decide, no, I don’t need another, no matter how cute. Or I buy fewer iced coffees at Starbucks, stash the money in an envelope, and write a check to a global non-profit at the end of the year.
Or perhaps it means something more dramatic: I donate my time at the local soup kitchen.
To be honest, I'm not entirely sure what this means for me. But I'm working on figuring it out.
Have you ever thought about how the simple act of your birth determined so much about your future?
This post is Part 4 in my five-week series "Lessons from the Hole" (a response to Richard Stearns' book The Hole in Our Gospel).
Next Week's Topic: The Role of the Church









I really need to read this book. I have often thought about the excess that we live with and justify. I'm still trying to figure it out also.
Very well written. And non-judgmental. Thanks for posting this.
This is a very thought provoking writing. I have in the last year changed my perspective on many things. I quit my job because of some 'job related' issues last August. This last year has been very good for me. I don't shop unless I shop in my closet. YES I do find things never worn. Shoes that are brand new still in boxes and sweaters in the shipped bags they came in never opened. Abundance is my story and it has been a journey of slowly removing STUFF I don't need anymore. I am not there yet... have not fully arrived but every effort I make it good.
Because my personality is a sentimental messy I tend to be a pack rat. NOT a hoarder that is different. But I just hold onto 'memories' maybe way too long?
anyway thank you for the encouragement. OH and I don't give to the good will they sell things very expensive. I give to charities like womens shelters, people who are homeless appreciate anything given.
have a great day.
I have determined myself to live simply. To live without adding more "stuff" to my life. I have found that living this way keeps me healthy and somewhat stress free.
PS Please stop by Grace and follow along with me. I noticed in your profile that you are a part-time writer. I could use some advice when you have time to visit.
I have missed visiting your blog and love what I read today, here. So much food for thought -- these are things that I grapple with constantly. I always struggle with people who claim/feel threatened that the American "way of life" is disappearing. I believe that our culture of materialism/consumerism verges on the grotesque and is about as far from "equal and free" as anything can be.
I look forward to hearing more of your musings. In the meantime, I'm going to begin actively working on "having enough."
I think not only where you are born but when plays a significant role. Had I been born 100 years before I actually was I would not have got an education, never have gone to University, never seen the world or done any of the things I have done in life pretty much. Fate deals a weighty hand.
As for hunger v riches I have learnt a lot these past few years since having my own child about how so many children in the US live with hunger - over 20% seriously so according to statistics. How so many children have no access to books so start school lacking essential pre-reading skills (over a third of children apparently). So when my own daughter starts school I am going to get involved in the local charities that address these issues. Because they exist in every community. For now I donate my daughter's toys and clothes and donate food parcels but I want to do a lot more.
I'm confronted every day with people asking for money and food, usually while I'm riding the train, and I struggle with how much to give and wondering whether this person will use the money for food or drugs or who-knows-what. Yesterday I had a $5 bill in my pocket and considered handing it to a man who simply repeated, "PLEASE help me" as he passed through the subway car. I didn't. Part of me was thinking, "Go ahead--he needs it more than you," and the other part was thinking about my soon-to-be-born baby and my husband's job, which is in jeopardy. But I know it's absurd: five dollars is not going to make much difference in my life. By the time I'd made up my mind, the man had moved on. I didn't like myself much. I still don't.
At various times during my 15 years in NYC I've carried peanut butter sandwiches or dollar bills or granola bars to hand over to whoever asks for help, but lately I've played blind and deaf to pleas. I tell myself that it's hard to be faced with relentless need, but it's undoubtedly harder to BE in relentless need.
I'm going to keep a few spare bills in my pocket for the ride home tonight.
It is a powerful, even somewhat oppressive thought that all because you were born in the 'wrong' country with the 'wrong' parents, you're destined to poverty and excruciating labor. We want to put that out of our minds- thank you for bringing it to the forefront.
Also, I ordered the book and we are doing it for the book club so I hope you can drop by and share your wisdom, experiences, and thoughts when we get up and running. Thanks Michelle.
My dear, I am often overwhelmed at the blessing of having been born in the United States to the parents I had.
I think, as you are saying, that we are meant to give back. To simplify our lives.
There is a song out now asking the question if Jesus came to you and asked you to give up everything and follow him, would you?
It has made me think.
I so appreciate your honesty--"I'm not entirely sure what this means for me." Like you, I'm not sure how Christ is calling me to respond to brokenness, only sure that He is. Thank you for keeping these things before us (me). blessings.
Keep it coming Michelle. This is powerful writing.
Some very needful things to ponder ... and then do something about.
the book sounds so intriguing. I'm going through a purge myself. I'm not a pack rat and there are barely stores around here to buy things all the time and yet- I feel like I have so much STUFF- an "overabundance" (like that useage). My trunk looks that same exact way right now, Michelle!!!!! Packed and ready for me to bring to the thrift shop tomorrow and I stare at it feeling at once happy to have sorted through stuff and disappointed that I had acquired it in the first place! Great great post!
Yes, Michelle, I have thought about the fact that where I was born has determined the opportunity and prosperity I enjoy here in America. I guess it hits home frequently here being so close to Mexico. No political insinuations at all.
Just a clear picture of the difference it makes as to where you were born with respect to a simple border line.
And "to whom much has been given, much will be expected". I don't think I quoted that accurately, but the gist of the idea is there.
I see my overspending every day I open my bathroom cabinet with its display of my many fragrance collection from Bath N Body.
Now that money is tighter at home, I do scrutinize my spending more. But like you say, it's my heart that needs scrutinizing.
Thank you for your great post.
Blessings,
Janis
Very interesting post.
My personal belief is that since we were created in the image of God and have ghodliness in us, our soul was a participant in planning our life circumstances.
I believe childrens' souls choose their parents, and thus the genetics, the culture, financial situation and where in the world they live.
I believe our souls do so in order to best achieve the goals we have set for ourselves about what we want to learn from this life.
Any time I am faced with something difficult, I remember that my soul and God would not have planned this for me for bad, there is a higher purpose it is meant to serve, to get me back on track with what my soul came here to experience and learn.
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over from Chatting at the Sky...loved what you wrote over there and loved this post today on your blog...looking forward to being back....
I so appreciate your honesty--"I'm not entirely sure what this means for me." Like you, I'm not sure how Christ is calling me to respond to brokenness, only sure that He is. Thank you for keeping these things before us (me). blessings.
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